Introducing Self-Reclamation: Aligning with Your Inner Truth
Seasons of Uncertainty
When I first started coaching, I knew I wanted to help women who were navigating life transitions — those pivotal moments when everything feels uncertain and you sense there must be more to life than the version you’re currently living. I wanted to support women in finding clarity and taking the steps toward a more aligned and fulfilling life — a path I have walked myself.
However, life transitions can take many forms, and I soon realized how difficult it was to narrow it down to something tangible. A new beginning, an ending, a career shift, a relationship change, a relocation — they’re all invitations to grow. So I went deeper. Into my purpose and the reason I was called to coaching in the first place. That's when Self-Reclamation came to me, and with it, everything fell into place.
It wasn’t the outer life transitions I wanted to focus on — it was the disconnection from the true, authentic self that I felt most passionate about. The process of breaking free from self-abandonment and over-adaptation, and supporting my clients as they reconnect with what matters most to them. Not by returning to who they once were, but by rising into the truest expression of who they are becoming.
The Cost of Waiting for Clarity
Life is precious, yet sometimes we find ourselves stuck in seasons of rumination — replaying old stories, delaying decisions, and questioning ourselves. From my own experience, I’ve learned that the longer we stay in that space, the more it negatively affects our health and overall quality of life. In doing so, we end up robbing ourselves of years that could have been lived with greater intention. Don’t get me wrong: whether it takes five, ten, or twenty years to learn a lesson or make a change, what matters most is that we eventually do. But wouldn’t it be beautiful if it didn’t have to take so long? If we could live those years in deeper alignment instead of postponing our fulfillment?
I’ve lived through seasons that taught me the complexity of big life decisions. I know the mental, physical, and emotional cost of ignoring my intuition over time — of losing touch with my own truth. I’ve felt the toll of staying in situations that drained my vitality instead of supporting my growth, waiting for clarity to arrive on its own. Too often, we subconsciously stay in a state of suffering, holding on to limiting beliefs that justify why we can’t break free from our familiar patterns. Now I know better: clarity comes from action.
“Clarity comes from action.”
I know the transformation that unfolds when you take agency — when you reach the point where you’ve decided it’s enough and choose to step into true ownership of your life and your direction. Remember, the decision hasn’t been made until you act on it.
What is Self-Reclamation?
To clarify what I mean by Self-Reclamation, I’ve created this definition:
“Self-Reclamation is the transformative process of deepening your connection with your authentic self and consciously choosing to live in alignment with your values, purpose, and vision — no longer shaped by disconnection, self-abandonment, or over-adaptation, but expanding into greater clarity, fulfillment, and inner freedom.
It’s not about returning to who you once were, but about growing through experience and rising into the truest expression of who you are becoming.”
This is the core of my coaching practice — and it reflects the essence of what I guide my clients through. Because no matter what season of uncertainty you’re in — often, the real work is the journey of Self-Reclamation.
“Often, the real work is the journey of Self-Reclamation.”
Dimmed Spark: When Your Outer Life No Longer Reflects Your Inner Truth
Living out of alignment can look different for everyone.
It can feel like no longer recognizing yourself — like your outer life no longer reflects your inner truth. You might catch yourself wondering, “Is this even my life?”
Somewhere along the way, the spark in your eyes begins to fade. Meeting your own reflection in the mirror starts to feel heavy — a quiet reminder of who you are deep down, and the ache of realizing the version of yourself you’ve been settling for.
When the thought of staying in the same situation in the future gives you an uneasy feeling, that’s your momentum — your inner call to change the trajectory of your life. And you don’t have to do it alone.
My Mission and Invitation
My mission is to help women shorten their seasons of uncertainty and experience the inner freedom and fulfillment that come from living an authentic and aligned life. I believe every person holds something uniquely beautiful to contribute to the greater whole — and a vital part of my purpose is to help bring that into expression, because the world needs your gifts and light.
I’m here to support you through the process and hold space for what unfolds. I’ve created a four-step framework called The Self-Reclamation Method™, which is the guidance I wish I had in my own seasons of uncertainty. I’m so excited to share it with you soon.
